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Once a writer has a first draft, this is the point where things get interesting.
For many writers, the idea of showing drafted work to someone initially is very hard. I tell my students from day one that they have to get over that. The benefits of getting feedback on any piece of writing far outweigh the negatives. I know that creative writing can feel very personal, and a bad feedback session makes a writer feel small. The best advice I can give you is this:
Detach.
When you are drafting, you want to care. A lot. You want to have fun and play. You want to explore. When you show your draft to other people, you have to put the draft outside of you. Outside of your ego. Outside of your emotions. What's being examined are the words on the page, not you or your writing process, or your multiple hours (years? decades?) of work.
Someone is doing you a favor by looking your work over for you. They deserve a kind and courteous response from you for doing so. Even if you don't agree with a blessed word they say.
I know that all peer editors are not created equal. Writers want to find someone that will give both positive feedback and constructive criticism. If a critique is only negative, and not helpful, I doubt that it's helpful to you as a writer to go back to that person for a reading in the future. Similarly, someone who strokes the writer's ego, but doesn't substantiate that praise, or doesn't give you anything to chew on as revisions occur, might not be the best person to read your work.
Another factor to consider when asking someone to critique is getting a writer at the skill level as you are currently. A more experienced writer can teach, but really can't give a less experienced writer the same kind of feedback as a peer can. I think you need both kinds of feedback.
Writing is viewed as a solitary occupation. Where can you, writing in Cherokee Scream, Texas (population 614) find someone to read your work that knows something about writing? Glad you asked.
Not all of these methods have proven successful for everyone, but they have for someone, so I'm listing them here.
Mirrored from Writer Tamago.